If I Should Marry Iyabo...(2)

 Before, I could also contract any marriage agreement or arrangement with this noted daughter who have played fugitive for long. I will inquire to know if she has no curse placed on her. It is of grave importance as curses affect most progress of Elite family because of their uncommonly attitude and treatment to those they call commoners, certainly my fears has been confirmed as real, she may be affected by one, and that may be from the family of former orderly who is reported to have died in 2003 during an armed Robbery attack. According to the widow of the deceased, a woman corporal with the Nigerian Police Force Kaduna, statement published in Sunday Sun Newspaper on November 11, 2007. The widow in her narration stated that few days after her husband's death a promise was made to pick the educational bills of the four children from primary School to the University.
But ever since, there was a sudden twist, to keep their promise of picking the children's education, nowhere did the OBJs exert their influence in order to secure financial reprieve for the widow and her children by influencing the Nigeria Police Command to pay the late corporal his gratuity. On that note the widow reiterated to leave Iyabo to God and I quote “But I assure her that my husband's blood will never leave her, let her stand before the public to say that she has rescinded her promise; then she would be left alone. If not my husband's blood and that of the kids will never leave her”. This dreadful type of prayer will not fail to be accompanied with an AMEN.
Clearly, it is additional burden why marrying Iyabo could be very difficult, being hamstrung with many deficiencies. A curse of this magnitude could take a generation to overcome if at all it will be. This has gone beyond wealth and influence, but about offending natural justice. She is guilty of many offences. Iyabo alone without assistance of her father has a financial ability to settle whatever involvement occurred to rescue the family of the man who died on her behalf. That is what their family is all about victimization, brutish, rudish always like dancing naked in the public, in self-glorification.
This is a lady who cannot act ethically such shouldn't have got a place in the legislative house at any level, not to talk of National Assembly. I will announce to her that she is without a sense of shame; she has no distinction between morals and immoral acts. She must be made to bear the full weight of the law. She portrayed herself untouchable, is it because the father was a numero uno citizen, therefore she chose to become a nuisance and lawless, and expect law to smile and clap for her, well, let's see because in Nigeria the unexpected always happen.
Afterall her father as a B. O. T. Chairman, still have enormous influence in the present lame duck Administration of Musa Yar'Adua whom he single handedly packaged and instituted.
Now, I could understood why Senator Nuha Aliyu had informed that Nigerians in the senate are all kinds of people with tainted past, is it not only tainted, but blood soaked past. Otherwise, how could Iyabo with such immoral behaviour found her way into senate? The senate should feel embarrassed by having the types of Iyabo in its chamber despite all her uncivil behaviours. The public developed opinion about her over the years as a public officer, her manners of displaying most contemptuous behaviour and arrogant. Her disregard for law and order is unparallel to what a former Minister of Health Prof. Ademike Grange did that earned her humiliations and yet the Prof. displayed good upbringing, remorsefulness and shame.
Meanwhile, whither women who claim to be super sonic in character, so much so best that what a man can do they often proclaim to do better. Their assertion and claim had unfolded in attitude of many women who have so occupied a sensitive position of authority in the land, not in a hurry to forget Patricia Etteh saga, her adamant and doggedness to remain visible in the Federal House of Representative.
It is no more understatement that women have outwit men and otherwise. I wouldn't want to tell Iyabo or any other woman that their rightful place is in the kitchen, it is an outdated statement that even men detest to welcome. But I would only want to let her know the extent their quest for equality has taken them to.
We have come along way to experience a bewildered avalanche of change of the most fundamental nature beginning from 1999.
The change that re-shaped and re-branded the country weaken demoralization that installed women, it may be regressive change, that is paradoxically, the “Wave of the future” who knows what next will happen, if the present president decide to vacate the office and hand over instead to his vice but to his more trusted ally-his wife.
All is a quest for a safe ride, safe landing, an applause for women effort and achievement.
Upon all the women's quest for equality and power play, their defeat is that they still show it to their opponents, who of course are the men, Face Up.
Without it they may have no power at all. Hard knock, soft landing, kudos to women folk a lesson for the like of Iyabos.